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Sunday, December 16, 2012

Something to NEVER Joke about

Hey!
Ok, well, if you don't know, most of this drama has mellowed down due to yesterday's post. If you haven't read it, you can either scroll down or click here.
I'm gonna try to have daily posts everyday to lessen down the comment wars, and not have people dwell on a topic for too long - but I'm not making any promises! >..<

Anyways, this post in NO MEANS IS MEANT FOR ANY OFFENSE TO KINYONGA , AND IS NOT A HATER POST, This is just a good example of a recent topic like this, that I'm gonna use. Any comment that states something along the lines of, "oh, there goes breathless bitchin' about kin again", or any comments relating to this old drama WILL BE REMOVED, don't say I didn't warn you.

Okay, I have had hater comments and remarks like this before. Kin sarcastically commented saying, "I'm praying for you, Goldy, you must have some problems in real life..." I have had another hater tell me, "I hope you become a better person" and "You must really be struggling in real xD" I always take it un-sarcastically, and agree with them, because I DO hope I'll become a better person. And you really shouldn't joke about someone having problems in real life, I could be in a rehab center right now, and you guys wouldn't even know. (A rehab center is a place for people to heal from depression, and become happier)
A lot of people use AJ (and other games) as a second life, where they can be their true self, have friends that like them for who they are, and have a totally new start. You never know what's going on behind that screen. I'm not gonna mention any names, but some of you may figure this out, one of my old close friends was always in very deep depression, and had a lot of troubles in real life, and I would always try to comfort her, saying even though I'm just a virtual bunny on her screen, my real heart cares for her. But, when a fan came, her and her other friend would be the happiest, kindest people alive. You really never know until someone opens up to you, which may never happen.

This is kinda getting serious, but maybe the person you're making this rude remark to has scars on their wrists from their own knives, maybe a bruise from their dad's fist, or cries their self to sleep every night due to social bullying at school. I know that sometimes I come to my AJ friends to cheer me up, or to take my mind off something if I had a bad day. But, when someone mentions something like that, It can feel like the whole world is coming down on you.

Okay, or maybe not as serious conditions, maybe they had a bad day at school, their crush rejected them, someone didn't like their new outfit, etc. This kinda got off topic, but all I'm trying to say, is you never know who the person behind the screen is, what their story is, so just try to make everyone feel the best about themselves, and don't joke about real-life problems. 

See you.. tomorrow... maybe later today...?
~breathless

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    1. True. I just read on the Daily Explorer about how even the Aplhas are suspicious of each other. Why are we keeping such dumb secrets? THis is supposed to be the truth! what's the truth? The truth is, I think people who always insult goldy are stupid. Truth? You betcha. I want to say the truth loud and clear. DROP IT. We all are supposed to get along, and adapt to things like, "if you give me a top..." etc...Why do we care abotu our looks? Guess what. I just sent my best rares to some random famous people like snowyclaw, etc, cause I didnt want them. They're pointless. We're all worrying about what our appearance is, and why not just say the truth? Those beggars begging for top hats are just idiotic. Then after they're gonan say they traded some really cool item for a top, when really, they just begged for it. I don't care if I'm an ugly, skimpy bunny, but at least people have hearts and care for people even if they dont see them :D that's why i like thsi post.

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    2. You my friend, seem like a likeable person.

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    3. @lparents. You should be thankful. People and comments like Ilovemypets8's hardly come around as you grow older.

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    4. You are, I quite like you, you're very nice and say deep stuff.
      Sorry if that sounds weird. But, yeah

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    5. omg u r so up tight breathless, u have something....then u turn it to drama,,, please shut the shit up

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    6. YOU SHUT THE SHIT UP!! YOU MAY HAVE NO IDEA WHAT BREATHLESS IS GOING THROUGH!

      ~coolgirl911

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  2. Haha she removed it cuz she knows I'm right :)

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    1. Oh, and yeah, she removed it because it was stupid. Nobody needs to know, and nobody, -HONESTLY- really cares. And I don't care if you say, "I care!" cause that is just picking a fight with my bare fists.

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    2. I said any comments relating to this drama or kin will be removed, and that comment had nothing to do with this post anywyas.

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  3. Breathless why is you remove my comment? I thought this was a blog about the truth?

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    1. She doesn't have problems. If anything, YOU have problems, anon. You can't just saying people have problems because they said something that a lot of people disagree with, she is just showing you that you're a dimwit for posting something that isn't true. These comments ARE about the truth, and anon, you are wrong. Everyone has problems. EVERYONE. So are you gonna walk around the sidewalk sayin, "YOU HAVE PROBLEMS" because everyone has problems in their life. It would be inhuman to not have problems. So, you could say, "YOU HAVE PROBLEMS" to me, it would be most rude, but everyone has problems. They failed their test. That's a problem. You got in a fight with your friend. That's a problem. A LOT of things are problems, and we encounter them a lot. You have problems, anon! Believe it. Magic has problems. Kinyonga has problems. I have problems. You have problems. What is the point to say to someone, "you have problems" when we ALL have problems?

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    2. I totally agree with you. O_O

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    3. Because all comments relating to this drama or kin, will be removed. I mentioned that earlier.

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    4. Oh, sorry, breathless I was just pointing out my point sorrrryy!

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    5. BreathlessDecember 16, 2012 12:13 PM
      Because all comments relating to this drama or kin, will be removed. I mentioned that earlier.

      Why? Because she is right and you know that, but you don`t want to admit to it??? I think that THAT is the answer.

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    6. Because she wants to move on, that's why. Not because she's right and breathy doesn't want to admit it or any of the sort. She wants to move on, don't you? :/

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    7. I think the world of animaljam needs to move on...

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    8. Because she's afraid for you, that makes she cares for you to move on.

      ~XxMoonlightLightsxX

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    9. ugh why she is so rude i hate her omg

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  4. I'm almost crying in real. Thanks Breathless *sarcasm*. IT WAS MEANT NICELY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :'( Great. Whenever I'm being sarcastic, I put *sarcasm*. Thanks. :'( IT WAS MEANT NICELY!

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    1. Wow, this is so true but sad..

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    2. Ok, maybe it wasn't the wisest comment to put, but it IS true...

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    3. Sorry, I thought it was sarcastic and I didn't know you put '*sarcasm*' when you're being sarcastic. I put that this post was in means no offense to you, and I was trying to teach a lesson.

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    4. I know...but why do you have to use ME?

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    5. I stated this earlier in the article, it was a perfect, real, recent example.

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    6. Kin, it's fine! We know it was the truth, this blog is about the truth Kin, We know you weren't being sarcastic, so you're okay :)
      -mewoa (FINALLY SIGNED IN)

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    7. Ahhh thanks! :) And ok, I get it :p

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    8. Kinyonga, dont say "im crying in real" because 1. you shouldnt be stressing over a blog, and 2. she used you as an example because you are an example.

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    9. Sarcasm doesn't go through computers well. It just sounded sarcastic, that's all.

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    10. You are SUCH a drama queen.

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  5. This is 100% true and sad. It proves your point in your last post too.

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  6. *sighs* I hate how drama from real life is slowly leaking into jammaa. Cyber Bullying on animal jam is now more than about how we don't have rares, it's about are mistakes, our weak points, and the bullies take advantage of those things. It sickens me they'll never really face us, never really know what they've done. It's uncomfortable to say the least to have someone point out flaws in your personality when they've never even met you, and it's only worse when they mention your looks when they've nevr even seen you .

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    1. Just Call Me Anon or Lparents, if You WishDecember 16, 2012 at 8:47 PM

      I've been bullied in real life. My own friend calls me a weak butterfly and it feels bad and I know they dont mean it but it does hurt. Im skinny and that makes people think im not strong, so they think im weak. Idiots.

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    2. Bullying and cyberbullying sucks and are, unfortunately, a part of life. I don't think it at the time, but now that I look back, I got bullied a LOT. Still do, but now I'm better at handling it and just keep my head high. In first grade(yeah, first, that's how early it started with this particular person) my bet friend turned on me. She spread rumors, turned a bunch of girls against me, stole money from me, and lied about me. It made me upset, of course. But every time I got mad at her se would start crying and apologize and beg for forgiveness. And I did. It was a vicious cycle. Eventually I gave up. I don't know whether we're friends or enemies now. I guess it's... neutral.
      Another one of my friends turned on me around the time her parents got divorced. I didn't let it get to me, because it was probably because of her family problems. I was still very nice to her and tolerated her jabs and mean remarks. But she really just started outright hating me, like her problems were my fault. She tossed me away, when I wanted to help her. That hurt, a lot. But I didn't show it, because I didn't want to hurt her. It's weird between us now, and I dunno what our relationship status is. Enemies, friends, neutral, whatever.
      And these two boys in my lit class. Probably the worst. I got a boyfriend, and they started making fun of me. Calling me a slut, a whore, making dirty remarks about me and my boyfriend. I didn't tell; I was no snitch. I wish I had told. I could have stopped them from bullying anyone else. But I didn't. I tolerate it.
      I guess what I'm trying to say is bullying is inevitable. You can ignore it or confront it, but it's still inevitable. I used to be very trusting. Now I'm horribly untrusting and suspicious. It sucks.

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    3. Well Lparents, make sure they know even if you're skinny, you're stronger heartwise then any of them. Mistgaze, I'm so sorry. I know a teacher of mine how would get bullied by the kids! We all thought he was so mean. I mean I'm more of a quiet person in real.

      Some of the boys would back sass him. They had no respect whatsoever. One of those boys also said they are *very* straight. That is sickening. He also would lie, and be mean to me and my best friend. She still has to deal with him, but I'm homeschooled now.


      Remember to tell those bullies that daily, many people will kill themselves because of people like them. Bullying is one of society's worst; along with the sick-minded. And now I think I might be getting bullied even more if I go out-of-state because a new show is airing called "Buck Wild", and it's just another version of "Jersey Shore". It just so happens I live very near to the recording of that show.

      Best wishes.

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    4. Thanks (: I don't normally share my bullying experience, but I figured why not. Sorry to hear you for bullied, and sorry, Lparents, that people say you're weak ): some people are just stupid and bully, it sucks.

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    5. You're very welcome. At least they shall one day hopefully learn their lesson.

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    6. I try to hide what I've been called on the internet. In fears that someone will use that against me, my insecurities are my buisness not some troll's behind a lifeless screen.
      I know some people get "inspired" by bullying stories, they don't feel alone. Honestly I'm one those people. I fear I'm one of the weakest human beings alive... Gym class isn't exactly a walk in the park for me. I'm pale, have acne, and honestly am not a fan of my looks, but that's not of any cyber bully's damn buisness ^^
      I hate to sound like an arrogant bitch, but what's so wrong with being happy with yourself? Honestly I love myself, because; acne's temporary, I'm not planning on being an athlete I don't need to be strong, but still my looks... I guess I'll never get over them, or maybe I'll grow to be beautiful...
      I'm not sure where I'm going with this, I'm suprised I finished this comment without mentioning the awful names I was called in fourth grade :P I'd make a list, but there'd be too much explaining, I'd rather just sound like a whiney, attention whore.

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    7. Peppywolf, it's okay. :) I have pale skin and acne too. I'm now homeschooled though because I didn't like the idea of middle school. I am not good at running, etc. Yes I have been offended in real life, one person I know in particular did it a lot. No, you don't sound like an attention-lover to me. I'm very happy however you love you for, YOU! That's all that counts right?

      Best wishes!

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    8. Dunno why other people think being pale is bad. I mean, I think pale skin is pretty. Personally. I envy you. Heehee. I have acne too. I had clear skin and thin straight hair, then I started eighth grade and my hair is now really curly and I get acne every so often. I like my hair though, I've always thought curly hair was pretty and mine's the ringlet curly kind, which is nice (: I hate the acne though. I'm one of those people who's like "Is that...a...PIMPLE?!?" whenever I see one on me, and then it's like freaking WWIII.
      I always try to compliment atleast one person on their appearance and personality. Mostly because whenever someone compliments me it makes me feel all warm as fuzzy inside. Like, someone will say, "Your eyes are so pretty!" or "I LOVE your hair!" or "You're so cute!" or something like that and it makes me in a good mood. So I try to do that to other people (:

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    9. Aww :)
      My friend wants to be very tan.... Though she does play outside more than probably most boys do.

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    10. I have curly hair toooo, or did I mention that :P

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    11. I know I just wanted to mention it. Hehehehe.

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  7. I agree. Someone could have lost a loved one. It's no right to make fun of someone for problems in real life, it's a SERIOUS subject.. not a virtual online game..

    ~XxPitbullzxX

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    1. It's sad to insult people on an online game. If you have a lot of rares, it means, well, you spend a lot more time on Aj to get those rares. (No offense goldy, not pointing anything at you), but people should just log off and think. Honestly, I barely even play Aj anymore. I just listen to the Animal Jam Truth blog because....Well, I want the truth. People who bully are people who want power, and most likely they've been bullied before and they want to take their anger out on someone else.

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  8. Goldy, I want to take a moment to apologize. I am a person on here that comments hate comments a lot. I am going to stop because I shouldn't be doing this. You are truly a good writer and you shouldn't be put down. I am sorry, Gold. And to all of your friends, (RJ,) I am sorry too. I hope you can forgive me and God Bless you and RJ. You both have great talents that God gave you and you should show the world! :)
    God Bless,
    O

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    1. Didn't mean to write "O" lol. ;)

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  9. I agree.
    Some people have lives you would never believe behind the computer.
    One of my online friends tried to commit suicide recently. She had a massive amount of cyber bullies.
    Someone said to one pf my online friends once, "I bet your mom and dad hate having you as a son."
    His parents abuse him.
    One of my best Internet friends had abusive parents, was in the army for Israel(he lives there, you get drafted into the army when you get out of high school) and had a bunch of friends who turned on him.
    One of my Internet friends was shot.
    He died.
    Morale of my story: Shit happens, and you might not know about it. You don't know someone's story. You don't know what's happening behind he scenes.

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    1. Exactly. I have three Internet friends I know who have died of things I would have never thought... :( 3 others are depressed. I feel so helpless and frustrated when I can't help my Internet friends... I just want to give them a hug... Let them cry on my shoulder... Sigh v-v

      Anywaaaaaay.... :I rl sucks. Rl happens. We can't help that. I am currently suffering from a rare disease called Addison's disease. Wouldn't have expected that, huh?

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    2. In really sorry
      Lexie1234

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  10. Yeah don't joke like that because someone can take it personal.

    Also Breathless/goldy epic blog :D!!!

    ~superscott23g23~

    P.S
    add me on AJ my user is superscott23g23

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  11. Delete this blog. Its just your sob story. Its just you telling everyone how "hard' your life is.

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    1. She makes it so we can learn from her mistakes. I think you really need to stfu because though i dont know breathless, she is really helpful by writing this blog. this is her way of teaching us. Why dont you delete your comment

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    2. Oh hush. Just because you don't like it doesn't mean other people don't. I love this blog and would be really sad if it was deleted. So would lots of other people. If you really don't like it, leave. It's not a sob story, it's an awesome blog, and if you have a problem with that then go deal with it somewhere else.

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    3. lol, goldy would've deleted this blog long ago if it was just her "sob story." but she didn't because she wanted to help others with their truths and teaching others lessons to help them learn. So yeah, think before you speak Anon :)

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    4. No. Anon is right. This blog is just goldy`s sob stories. She tries to make people feel bad for her. A real AJ blog should: show updates around Jamaa, Show new items, show new evens, show new codes, new games, new journal entries and it should have contests.

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    5. AJ blogs don't have guidelines. There's no book that states, "To be an AJ blog, it must include the following:" or anything of the sort. Besides, this is no average AJ blog. This is a blog for sharing stories and being yourself and opening up to the world. That's how I see it. I don't think Breathy is telling sob stories. I don't think she wants us to feel bad for her, either. So I guess I don't really see where you're coming from. I mean, I respect your opinion of course, I just don't really understand it.

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    6. If all AJ blogs were the same I'd die, I hate blogs that just show updates, and host contests! Where's the fun in that?

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    7. The run is in talking civilly with other jammers. and trading, and partying and having fun.

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    8. EXACTLY peppy, goldy tried to make this blog unique, do you see any other blog that does this? that speaks the truth and doesnt JUST give "Oh, new item this is in the store." or "OMG I GOT THIS TRADE I HAVE A TOP IM SOOO HAPPY :D." Or "Hey guys this is a contest for blablabla and you get blablabla!" no offense to ANYONE or their blogs. And Anon, if you dont like this blog then why dont you go to blog that just has that then, k?

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    9. Go die in a hole anonymous

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  12. Its true. I'd die if all blogs just said Top hat new thing and OMG I GOT A NEW TRADE and Heres a contest for blabaababababa Its unique and special this blog. I like hearing about it and i try to report {(name here}) If goldy is bullied by him/her So yeah/

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